Everything the site does for you
No mystery meat here — this page lists exactly what your membership includes, what VIP adds, and the tools working quietly in the background.
Included with every free account
Profiles that fit real lives
Photos, honest prompts, and disclosure entirely on your terms — lead with your disability, mention it in passing, or save it for chat. All three thrive here.
Search that respects distance
Filter by location radius, age and intentions, because energy and travel are real budgets. Local-first matching is the whole philosophy.
On-site messaging
Conversations live on the platform, so your number, email and socials stay yours until someone has properly earned them.
Report & block, everywhere
One tap on any profile or message, human moderators behind every report, and removals that stick. Kindness here has enforcement.
Accessibility toolbar
Larger text, high contrast and reduced motion from a button on every page, remembered between visits — plus a low-vision-first typeface throughout.
The app experience
Add the site to your home screen and it behaves like an app — fast, full-screen and ready when you are, no store required.
What VIP adds, honestly priced
VIP exists for members who want the tools at full volume: unlimited messaging for the prolific, priority support when you want a human fast, and the guilty pleasure of seeing exactly who’s been admiring your profile. It’s priced clearly inside your account, cancels without a fight, and is never required to meet someone — plenty of members find their person without it.
- Unlimited messaging, no daily ceilings
- See who’s viewed and liked your profile
- Priority support from actual humans
- Clear pricing, easy cancelling, zero ambush
And behind the curtain
Automated screening filters fraud patterns before they reach your inbox; our safety centre keeps the plain-English playbook for everything else. The site is fast on slow connections, works one-handed on a phone, and treats every accessibility bug report as a queue-jumping priority. Features are lovely; a site that respects its members is the actual product.
Try the whole toolkit free
Every essential above is yours the minute you join.
Create a free account